I felt like a cheater, a betrayer, a morale breaker. Instead, you should run into her at a club, a party, or just out in the middle of the day, and start charming her and letting her know that you want to hook up.
I felt like a cheater, a betrayer, a morale breaker. If your ex tells you she misses you, sends you sweet not sexy texts, or says she wishes you could do some couple-y things together, then it's time to bow out. Hooking up with an ex is risky behavior that can lead you to get hurt all over again, but it can also give you a thrill to hook up with someone that you used to date. It may be tempting to fight with your ex again if you're used to it, but remember that it won't lead you anywhere except back where you were -- a bad relationship. I guess I just wanted to feel like I was getting back together with my ex.