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And, of course, there certainly are romantic Black men and non-romantic non-POCs. On the other hand, becoming too preoccupied with ascertaining all the details of her life may risk scaring her away. My mom and dad have been married for 37 years, and my dad picks up the tab. Casual First Dates Suggest meeting the woman for coffee or drinks before asking her out to dinner. And many men share this opinion.